Comments on: Does Forever Exist In A Relationship? Halle Berry Doesn’t Think So. http://yeahshesaidit.com/2009/08/21/halle-berry-says-forever-does-not-exist-in-a-relationsip/ If You Don't Say It, I Will Fri, 30 Jul 2010 17:35:55 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: caramelgirl http://yeahshesaidit.com/2009/08/21/halle-berry-says-forever-does-not-exist-in-a-relationsip/comment-page-1/#comment-596 caramelgirl Wed, 02 Dec 2009 22:33:07 +0000 http://yeahshesaidit.com/?p=726#comment-596 I agree with Phoenix to a certain extent. Just because you chose not to marry, does not mean that you've given up on love. Love can be lived, experienced, and shared in many different ways. However, marriage is viewed as the morally correct or "right" way to share love with someone. I think its good that halle knows what she wants in life and in a relationship. So many women get hurt because they dont know what they truly want, and end up getting in crappy relationships. I myself am in a loving marriage, though it is still fresh and new, I know that problems will arise, and most likely boredom. But i agree with Will Smith, divorce is just not an option for me. I feel like as long as me and him can work things out, then our marriage and love can still grow, even in 2009. I agree with Phoenix to a certain extent. Just because you chose not to marry, does not mean that you’ve given up on love. Love can be lived, experienced, and shared in many different ways. However, marriage is viewed as the morally correct or “right” way to share love with someone. I think its good that halle knows what she wants in life and in a relationship. So many women get hurt because they dont know what they truly want, and end up getting in crappy relationships.

I myself am in a loving marriage, though it is still fresh and new, I know that problems will arise, and most likely boredom. But i agree with Will Smith, divorce is just not an option for me. I feel like as long as me and him can work things out, then our marriage and love can still grow, even in 2009.

]]> By: Phoenix http://yeahshesaidit.com/2009/08/21/halle-berry-says-forever-does-not-exist-in-a-relationsip/comment-page-1/#comment-164 Phoenix Mon, 24 Aug 2009 23:38:17 +0000 http://yeahshesaidit.com/?p=726#comment-164 She has given up on the notion of monogamous love, but she hasn't given up on love. There has to be a certain ideology that you subscribe to in order to hold on to the "hope" of true love. I think Halle has just decided to embrace the reality of what "love" and "relationship" is in an over-sexed society that views love and monogamy as "old school". She has given up on the notion of monogamous love, but she hasn’t given up on love. There has to be a certain ideology that you subscribe to in order to hold on to the “hope” of true love. I think Halle has just decided to embrace the reality of what “love” and “relationship” is in an over-sexed society that views love and monogamy as “old school”.

]]> By: Chuck http://yeahshesaidit.com/2009/08/21/halle-berry-says-forever-does-not-exist-in-a-relationsip/comment-page-1/#comment-159 Chuck Fri, 21 Aug 2009 22:18:15 +0000 http://yeahshesaidit.com/?p=726#comment-159 "Love" is as flimsy a concept as "dry clean only" and because someone says that you're SUPPOSED to do that doesn't mean that's the only way to do it. Monotony breeds boredom in every one of us--the question is what you will do once you get bored. Will you find another extended one night stand or will you find some way to work it out? It's 2009 people, well past time to get hung up on something as silly (yes silly) as marriage when you should be more concerned with getting your money right. And to the men of means out there, you should keep these three things in your overnight bag: condoms, ironclad pre-nups and great lawyers. “Love” is as flimsy a concept as “dry clean only” and because someone says that you’re SUPPOSED to do that doesn’t mean that’s the only way to do it. Monotony breeds boredom in every one of us–the question is what you will do once you get bored. Will you find another extended one night stand or will you find some way to work it out? It’s 2009 people, well past time to get hung up on something as silly (yes silly) as marriage when you should be more concerned with getting your money right. And to the men of means out there, you should keep these three things in your overnight bag: condoms, ironclad pre-nups and great lawyers.

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