Ladies, I want to pose a question to you. We are all grown (at least I hope so) and we all have sex (at least I hope so). My questions is, does size really matter? I can speak from my point of view and give a resounding Hell Yes It Matters, but that is just me. Other women may not require a big stick. For them the simple things might be sufficient. The holding, touching, squeezing, licking, sucking etc.. You get my point. For some women, sex is not that big of a deal and they focus more on the mental side of the relationship and that is all they require. Me? I’m a greedy chick. I need you to stimulate me mentally and physically. Plus, what about the phrase “It is not about the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean?” Does that truly apply to sex or was it just something made up to give guys with small sausages an excuse for their shortage.
This is deeper than the sex being bad. If the sex is bad then you could at least try to guide him or tell him what it is you like or dislike. A patient woman will make it work. However, if he is lacking in his jeans then there is nothing that can be done about that. Do you stay with him despite his (clearing my throat) shortcomings? What if you guys are intimate and you cannot feel any sensations from him? Kind of like you see him there but you certainly do not feel him. Is it ever okay to leave a man because he is lacking in the sack? What if he is a good guy that treats you well.
My first reaction is that if you truly care for him and he is worth it, then stay and find a way to make it work. Perhaps implement using toys in the bed or focus more on him providing you with oral sex. Then there is the little devil on my other shoulder saying “Girl! Ain’t no future in your frontin! You know damn well that if your man was working with a pinky finger for a third leg that you would not stay with him. If you did then eventually you would cheat on him.” Now this is me thanking my lucky stars that I do not have to worry about dealing with this issue. Shout out to “The Boy”. You know who you are…
So ladies, What say you? Stay or leave? Remember, Ain’t No Future In Your Frontin’
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Lady D
5 months ago
Leave. Point blank period. There is no point in being in a relationship and he can’t satisfy you. You’re going to be unhappy and I konw if it was me, I would end up cheating. Plus, if you flipped the script do you think a man would stay with a woman if the sex was wack? It goes both ways.
Nat black
5 months ago
@ lady d. Might not leave. He may just tell her ass to bend over. Lol bt real talk
Isis3079
5 months ago
My friends and I have discussed this and I use to feel bad and shallow for the way I feel but the truth is if a man has a small peen I will not be with him. sexual satisfaction is important to me. It is not the most important thing but it is high on my list of must haves. If a man cannot satisfy me sexually there is no need to waste either of our time. Sad but true.
Luda2
5 months ago
Um… well… been there and it is not pretty. He’s up there workin’ his heart out and you’re looking at him like, “Is it in yet?” And they know it’s small so they tend to be the ones who want you to give them a bunch of props on their performance. It is incredibly frustrating and I know the guy I was with who was like that wouldn’t perform oral sex. He wanted it but was squeamish about giving it! I gave him a couple of tries hoping for the best but it just got worse. He had to go – without ceremony he got the picture. There was no call back or any further talk about us. he was related to the friends stack and I keep him at arms length even there in case he thinks he can try that mess again.