For years I could not achieve an orgasm. I enjoyed the act of sex but never got to the WOW point like my partner did. I could never reach orgasm via penetration. I only reached an orgasm via oral sex. This frustrated me and eventually, I was on the verge of giving up and assumed that I would be one of those women who would never achieve an orgasm through sex. I contended with being Forty years old and still an orgasm virgin. I had girlfriends who could reach their peak and I would question them desperately. Is it me? I had had sex with more than one man so it could not possibly be them. Right? I felt unsure until I met my current boyfriend and finally got to the WOW point and thought “This is what I was missing! WOW Indeed.” Even better was being able to reach multiple orgasms. I know now that I am not the only woman who has had troubles reaching an orgasm through sex. I discovered some techniques for reaching your WOW online and wanted to share. Here are a few positions that are said to assist in a woman reaching orgasm.

Positions for achieving female orgasm during intercourse

1. One possibility is something called “Dok-al-Arz,” or “pounding on the spot.” This position assures three important factors in copulation. The first is depth of the penis. The second is the “G-Spot angle” and the third is clitoral stimulation.

To achieve this position, the man sits on the edge of the bed, and the woman sits on the man, inserting his penis into her vagina. She then wraps her legs and arms around him. The couple is free to kiss if desired. The woman should begin a slow grinding movement, thereby stimulating her clitoris and G-Spot simultaneously.

2. The second position is commonly known as “The Gates of Heaven.” To perform this the woman lies on her back. The man lies or kneels in alignment with the vagina. The man will hold (or press with his shoulder) the woman’s leg(s) upwards to adapt the positioning of the woman’s pelvis. Again, there is both clitoral and G-Spot stimulation.

3. The third position is a variation of the second, and is called “Crab on its Back.” This position, like the previous two, assures clitoral and G-Spot stimulation. The woman lies on her back with a cushion beneath her buttocks, and the man kneels or lies on top of her while pressing her thighs hard against her chest. The vagina will be tighter and the cervix will be pushed forward, so the penis presses against the cervix during intercourse.

This tip is from my own book of orgasm utopia. I am able to achieve orgasm quick, fast and in a hurry when I am in the missionary position and lift my lower half of my body up slightly in order for him to apply more pressure on the clitoris and pelvic area. I often need for him to continue with the same stroke consistently. A few minutes of this combined with me being completely relaxed and engulfed in the moment and POW!

Another important tip from my orgasm book is to increase the fore-play. Allow him, or instruct him in some cases to get your juices flowing, figuratively and literally by touching, caressing, sucking, licking, biting, rubbing, squeezing, all of the above. This may not be enough to get me to an orgasm but it definitely revves me up for some action. Any other tips you ladies would like to share?

Tips Via: Shine.com