You Might Think I’m Hating But…
I find it interesting that novice Rap star Nicki Minaj has came on the scene with all of her Harajuku Barbie flavor and self proclaimed bisexual (even though she says she likes girls more) antics and suddenly it is perfectly acceptable for a female rapper to be out of the closet. In fact, you can be so out of the closet with it that you can also go around signing boobies. While other equally talented (or even more so talented in some cases) female rappers like Missy Elliot, Da Brat, Mc Lyte, Queen Latifah have been suspected of being trapped in that symbolic closet for years in fear of committing career suicide. In fact Queen Latifah, so far, is the only one brave enough to come out of the metaphoric closet. Nicki Minaj pops out on the scene and makes being a lesbian a gimmick and suddenly it is acceptable.
I’m trying to wrap my brain around it. So it is acceptable to be a female rapper and be gay as long as you are not masculine in any way. You can’t be a gay female rapper and come out wearing Army fatigues, Timberland boots with braids down your back. Even if you have skills, you still won’t be as successful as your more sexually charged feminine counterpart. That seems to be the angle. If you are gay then you must be a sex kitten. Down for any position, any new trick and inviting anyone in you bed. Nicki Minaj’s persona is sexual and voluptuous. She is the aggressor, the seducer. If you listen to her lyrics then you assume that Nicki Minaj is a freak. She is also very feminine. Her image is that of a woman who is sexually free, so it is okay that she is gay/bisexual. In fact it is almost natural that she should be. Right? For some being sexually free goes hand in hand with being bisexual/gay.
What kind of backwards concept is that?
A few years ago I interviewed Nicki Minaj for AllHipHop.com before she was the Harajuku Barbie that she is now. Back then she did not have a clan of young female followers reciting every word to her songs with their pink wigs on. I clearly remember her stating that she was not very comfortable expressing her sexuality and being so feminine. She went on to state that she was more comfortable in baggy jeans and sneakers. I also recall her saying that her management at the time instructed her that the sexy look and talk was the best route and the image that she WOULD be taking. I got the sense then that she was being guided and at the time did not have much control over her image. Well, a lot has changed in the 2 years since that interview. It looks as though Nicki is finally comfortable with her sexuality. It might be safe to say that she is extremely comfortable. At what cost only she knows.
I am not blaming Nicki Minaj.
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Jennesia
4 months ago
Is Latifah gay??? I really was not aware…….. I also agree with your article.
nayomi k.
4 months ago
Yeah… I think thus is also true for Amber Rose even though shes not a rapper…
Try again boo
4 months ago
With all that you wrote, you seem to be implying that all lesbians have to look and act a certain way. That’s not the case. All lesbians have a different style — just like all heterosexuals have a different — style and just because Nicki is more feminine DOES NOT MEAN that we can’t have a more masculine lesbian or bisexual rapper hitting the scene later in life.
It’s hard for females PERIOD to break into the rap game and it’s hard for gays in ANY entertainment field to live their lives openly. So don’t even try to say that because of Nicki Minaj, all lesbian rappers from here on out have to look and act a certain way. She just happens to be the first to be up front about it during a time when slowly, more gays and lesbians are being accepted for who they are. I mean, Nicki hasn’t even dropped an album yet and already you want to say she’s setting some kind of standard? Try again.
Nia
4 months ago
Queen Latifah has never come out and said she was gay. What is YOU talkin bout?? :-/
Toy
4 months ago
@TRY AGAIN BOO
I don’t think LJ is implying that bi-sexual/lesbian rappers HAVE to act a certain way but more so this is what is more so exposed and accepted in today’s society. Kind of like being told your typical “beautiful-it-girl” has to be skinny with long hair, perfect skin, perfect teeth, and so on. But then you have actresses like Monique and Queen Latifah who have put that to shreds.
Honidip
4 months ago
The real true is the female voice in rap is marginalize and the current voice is the oversexed moral deprived materalistic voice that doesn’t represent a significant number of women straight gay or bisexual. Bisexual females will find more acceptance in the rap world because they are no percieved “sexual threat” to the masculine ideal. I’m not to familar with Missy Elliot M.C lyre Da Brat or Queen Latifah stating they were gay. In fact I have read or heard interviews where each one has denied being gay. So to use their names as gay member who are forced to be in the closet is irresponsible. For us who know that whenever a woman was a good rapper their sexuality was always qestioned. This is what happened to Latifah and Lyte. Early in their careers they performed in clubs even gay clubs to build fan base men rapper wouldn’t do gay clubs even if they were gay. This is my opinion of how the rumors about Latifah and Lytes sexuality.came from it was assumed they were gay. I hope that the female voice in rap multipies and diversifies so the fans of Nicki Latifah Eve Missy and Lyte are represented no matter what the sexuality ther
y are.
chocoooo
4 months ago
Yea I think hip hop makes the feminine bi sexual female, like the thing to be of the moment, all the guys boast of threesomes and “like girls, who like girls”, honestly in the past 3 yrs i notice alot more lesbianism in clubs and bars, i’m not sure if people are feeling more three or just trying to please men who like it, but it seems to be every where…I say all that to say is that there is still the unspoken rule that if you are not a woman that is sexually appealing to the opposite sex, you are treated different, that’s why other gay female rappers feel uncomfortable admitting their gay. What if Nicki liked women only, and prefers to dress the tom boy look, her label wouldn’t have it, she could never say she was straight gay, and dress how she wants.
Grace
4 months ago
I agree with you. If you feminize any topic or style, it would be more accepted. It is almost like the saying “children should be seen and not heard”. What people are seeing is a woman who is a sex symbol, whether it be heterosexual, homosexual or in this case bisexual. What is also important to note is that she equates herself to “barbie”. Barbie represents Amerikkka’s normal perception of what a woman should be. But what people fail to see is that it is a gimic. She uses this American dream doll or role model to put herself out there.
What isn’t being heard is the undertone of who Minaj really is. Minaj has to “sexify”, package her style up sexy, in order to be accepted into the commercial just as she would be accepted in the streets. Her artistic style and choice of diction like her song “go hard” really does go hard. But how would that be accepted if she was wearing the sterotypical butch lesbian attire? It doesn’t matter if you have talent. If it isn’t sexy, it will sell but not as much.
imani
3 months ago
i agree boo
imani
3 months ago
i asked google cause i saw nikki minaj in lil freak by usher and she was all over that girl.i really wonder if she is gay.shes stil a kick ass rapper.
imani
3 months ago
i wonder if nikki will have a show about finding love with girls and boys?
androgony
3 months ago
I totally agree, if a stud came out aws a rapper-women or men wouldn’t be following her. Only gay girls who get wet for studs would listen.
its so sad for Missy,Da Bratt n Latifah yet it shows how far we have come as society to except Nicki n i hate to admit it but DAMM SHE HOT!!!
monica black
2 months ago
dayyym if i was ah bi i would hit it off wth nicki minaj she is soo fukkn hot as hell …..
i love yoooou nicki <3333
ewww i totally went by juss now hahahhaha
nicki you that besties hahahah!!
leila
2 months ago
faaawk! fahh realz…nickkiiii minaj
iss soofa kinqqq hot . .
i’dd qoo bi any time now ta be widdd
herr hahahaha!
SHe CutE….
muchh luv ta yu nicki <33
Nicki Minaj
2 months ago
Ludacris is alwayz making dese HOT songs, they’re already on my mp3 player. i like they way he got Nicki Minaj as a feature cause imo she contributes alot the track. The clip is hot too.