Okay am I a hater or what? I’m not sure how I feel about this person. I feel so confused. Its like I can’t hear anything good about him because I know who he use to be or more so who he use to be to me. Sometimes I feel like I’m going insane because I forgave him. So why does the past still bother me? What have I not let go? What am I still holding onto or better yet, what is still holding on to me?
Ladies have you ever felt a little bound by the past either by some one or some thing? It seems like you have released this person, but yet you feel like you’re not released. Now how can this be? How can you let go of something and yet still feel trapped? If you have prayed about it and have received deliverance from it, then why do you feel awkward when he speaks to you?
As a believer, you have to learn how to walk in and with your deliverance. It doesn’t happen overnight and it will not be easy, but you have to take one step at a time. You have to get over the past by looking towards the future and begin to LIVE in the present. Frequently looking back in the past can keep you stuck in the past.
Steps onto being delivered are just that—STEPS. If you are tired of feeling this way, one great way to start off is by being honest with yourself. By being honest with yourself, you are able to recognize your feelings and begin to resolve those feelings by asking God ‘why do these feelings still exist.’ Figure it out! Why continually dwell in the mix of confusion, bitterness and old pain? Once you have recognized your feelings, ask God to take them away; to mend your heart; to give you a peace of mind and to ultimately forgive yourself.
Once you forgive yourself, get back to loving the person that you see in the mirror every day. If you don’t know how to love yourself, it is impossible for you to love someone else properly. Either you give too much or not enough, eventually losing yourself in between. You end up becoming the woman of his dreams and abandoning the man you dreamed of in yours. Nobody is perfect, but there must be a balance. Don’t miss out on your “Mr. Right” because you steady reminiscing on “Mr. Wrong.” Get pass it and continue to move along.
Written By: LaTara Harris
s.spec///so you know this is really an eye opener...you know ppl know these things but to READ it...PROCESS it and actually LIVE it is a TOTALLY different thing....someone needed your words of wisdom...great job....8-) loved it!!!
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