I watched the latest episode of What Chilli Wants last night (don’t judge me) on VH1 and I could not help but notice one key thing as Chilli and Floyd Mayweather interacted. He is stringing her along. Sure he may care for her but the truth of the matter is he is still very much so.. well.. a little boy. He has an obsession with material things, bragging about his wealth in order to feel like a “big man”. Not to mention, during the scene where she was at the amusement park with him, I noticed that he was more interested in hanging with his boys rather than tending to the woman that was his date. Also a sign of a little boy. I don’t have a problem with him wanting to have fun and devote all of his attention to his boys but if that was the case, why even invite Chilli? Why not just spend time with them individually.

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The pinnacle of my annoyance with him was when she repeatedly asked him did he honestly see a future with her? Was she wasting her time waiting on him? He never answered her clearly. He chose to dance around the question and avoid giving a “yes or “no”. Like a scared little boy would. Now, I am not completely blaming Floyd because she has also allowed this to go on as well by even dealing with him. However the question is at what point should you give up on a person? It is obvious that he is not as serious about her as she is him. That could change but for now, that seems to be the position he is in. This is real life and not the movies. Sometimes love does not happen over night. Sometimes love between a man and a woman does not follow a clear and steady path. Sometimes there are hurdles that must be overcome before the two can ever be one. The question of knowing whether or not there is a chance of having a future with this person never has one defined answer for every person. In Chilli’s case, Floyd won’t even agree to be exclusive with her. That is as basic as it gets on the commitment bar.

Chilli, like many other women and some guys may be hoping that one day he will realize that what they have is special and ultimately want to commit. I am going to turn a question over to you. This does not have to just be about Chilli. Although you can comment on her. Should you ever wait on the person to commit to you? What if you have something special with that person but that person is to immature, blind, distracted to see it? What if you think that the person is worth the wait? Should you be patient and wait it out? If so for how long?