Amen with number one. I almost had to knock a dude out who tried that accident. He almost had one. And number nine will get a man seriously injured. As much money and time women spend on their hair, this is an absolute no no. How would you men like cum in your hair? Not cute is, it?

Tedious advice. Don't talk...say my name...you're done too quick...you're not licking it right...blah blah.

These are NOT things that every woman wants her male lover to know. They vary widely. What women want is to be able to tell you what they want from you in particular. Create an atmosphere where that's possible, and you won't have to worry about following lists of whether you can touch her there or whether you're talking too much.

To Fast to slow, to quick to long, not there not to hard not to soft talk to us that all we need we will do what ever you say COMMUNICATE

this article is on point.. love it..

I love your point number 6. I HATE spitting with a passion. It's like a bad porno and a complete turn off! DO NOT EFFIN SPIT ON MY VAGINA!!!!!

I don't mind the sweating part to much, if it's a really long, hardcore session..one guy I used to date, i don't know why but everytime we had sex, his nose would run lmao..i kept my eyes closed most of the time during missionary, cuz a couple times his snot actually fell on my chest..

gaspi its mind over matter.... u need to start slow and not go so fast that how i do it there nothing wrong going slow and easy ... then after u cum... then u can start hitting hard.. but do not stop key thing.. works for me..

I love sex and when a guy knows what he is doing i cant help my self. lol i think all guys should read this cuz for real it dose not matter how big you are just as long as you know how to work it lol!!!!!

so how can i keep long when am doing sex

so how can i keep long when am doing sxe

i love ever thing on there... iv learned alot i knew alot but there was alot that i did not know...but it would help if the lady's would help the man out some time show the man how to do something the right way... the man well keep doing the same thing until he is shown fact... my girl is still shown me thing that im having a hard time with but i listen so that's the key thing guy listen to ur girl and how she moves her body... u can see what to do and what not to do... :) have a great day..

I agree with most of what was said in the article, except the part about semen, period. I guess I'm just squeamish, but I don't even want to touch it, and pretty soon afterward I'm going to the bathroom to make sure it doesn't have my bed dripping with it.

You are truly right about every thing. Keep up the good work and I would like to see more.

One thing I relize about our black women they don,t like for us to be long like as if they want to hurry up and then holla get off like as If they don,t want it.Most of them have a bad attitude about sex.Especially if they,ve just come from the hair stylist.Thay are selfish about sex as well as some blackmen.And U will never catch them talking about sex to their partner about what they want.

Thank ..you ..I think we have something in common....!

we ladies let me first say not all men are created equal, nor are females. No child is the same as his sister or brother. So no lady is the same as your last great fling. Nor the the stud in life prior to me will be me, nor should he be. Sex like a good relationship is based on open and honest communication. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want,, be kind, but honest. That little button is not a open book,, nor is my gear shift an open book. How should I know if you don't tell me, what you like, or don't like? Men nobody likes a fool,, and ladies men don't want miss Thang. Ladies you may have been the door knob, but at least make me think I am the first one taking the turn. I have found the best sex, love making comes when you as a couple open up an say what you want. If you can not ask for it then you don't need it. SAY WHAT YOU WANT ,, MEAN WHAT YOU SAY. no that does not you have to stay on script, but if you know some of what will please your mate, then you will stay within a general realm of activities that will not harm or hurt the person you are with.

PS> Ladies i KNOW YOU SPENT HOURS AND GOOD MONEY ON YOUR DOO, BUT IF I SHOULD SLIP AND SQUIRT IN YOUR HAIR,, BE PROUD,, YOU JUST MADE ME A HAPPY MAN,,

FROM AND OLD SCHOOL LOVER,

i have never had these problemz before but there is a reason for that. me personally itz all about tha convoz before sex. if im interested in a female i would want to know everything in some detail before i have sex. im going to let her know what tha deal is too. Like me on 1 hand i rather give oral than recieve but some femalez think they can skip that part. im sitting there like hold up it may not play a major piece ta me but ya know it be nice. People tend ta be too sensitive and become arrogant because sex doesn't hold to there expectationz. Sex as well as itz partner Love only becomez betta if u work at it.

Communication is the key to any good relationship. No two women or men are exactly alike. If you can't be honest and open about what you like with your partner, then you get what you get. There is a saying that I love to use and say to young people who I am trying to teach: "It's not what they say, it's what they do." Ladies, just laying there looking at the ceiling isn't very inspiring. If you want to be shown all this consideration, try showing some. Want that WHOLE relationship? Then stop give 50/50.. Give 100%

Human interaction is in constant flux.. What works for one couple does not work for another. But there are some some common denominators for a relationship. The first and foremost is mutual respect. One night stands are one night stands. But even those require work. Physical contact is great, but get to know your partner on more then just a physical level. Do not be one dimensional... make Love to her feelings, her mind and her body. When you do that the love making is so much more satisfying. That feeling extends to that morning when you make breakfast together. And the breakfast you made together gets cold because before you get done making breakfast you are back in bed making love and enjoying each other again.

Excuse me if you cannot read your partner then you will never get it!
Sometimes my girl will want to go all night and it can be taxing! But it is not just about me! And other times she may have multiple orgasms before I have even come close to climaxing but I know it is time to hurry things along!
But unlike a man who normally has little control a woman can take all night and sometimes you may just set her off! But it is about feeling your partner and go with the flow!

just about everything on this list would be obvious to anyone who's ever had a conversation with a woman about sex, and nothing on here sounds unereasonable. I would have thought all that was common sense. I would like to say though, in response to #11 ladies, you might not know this but the same applies, for a the first few minutes, use every move you can and find out what works, and then when we're in the zone and you've found what 's gonna get us there stick with it.

then how do u get baby ta cum a lot or oragsim shit seems hella hard and im packn major

Interesting. Would like more details. (smiles)

ugh. you sound annoying.

The better shape you're in, the more you sweat. That's why a lot of girls don't sweat -they're not in shape. The world is getting tired of women talking about men and how they're pigs. The good ones are getting exhausted making up for the poor male examples that most women choose.

ahhhhhhh LJ! Loved this one!

I have a lot of female friends that tell me the same things, but I always get confused with #7. You don't want a minute man but if it's too long, you complain. It's like all women are little Ms. Goldiesex. Not to short, not to long, just right.

You've inspired me to write one for the fellas. It won't be this long because guys don't have as many requirements (we're shallow) but we do have our bare minimums.