I got on the good brothas and told them the type of sistas to avoid so now it is the sistas turn. The following is a short list of brothas that good sistas should avoid. Please feel free to add on…… Help a sista out!
1. The Eternal PlayBoy
Old as hell and still trying to be a player. He refuses to let go of this player lifestyle that he has embraced since his youth. Now he is older and still thinks its 1995 in his mind and every woman wants him. He uses women to validate his self worth. He also thinks that he is smarter than you though he will never admit it. In fact he thinks that he is smarter than every woman and is smoother than ice. Tell him and his gators to slide away. Don’t waste your time and energy trying to convince him to be loyal to you because it won’t happen.
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2. The Baby Daddy Drama Keeper
This guy has so many baby mamas that he can barely keep their names straight. If you do decide to hubby him up then realize that you are taking on his 3 or 4 different baby mama’s and whatever drama they have. Unless he is a damn good man or rap star paid like T.I. or someone of that financial caliber, it is not worth the drama.
3. The Whore
The guy who thinks his penis is golden and can do miracles. He thinks that his penis is enough to make you do anything he asks for and that you should never expect more. His mind state is something like this… “What more can you want? You getting penis. Isn’t that enough?” He would be the type of guy to avoid working and would rather have his woman take care of him. Get his want to be a pimp ass out of here.
4.The Super Possessive Dude
This is the guy who is very protective and jealous to the point that it is no longer cute and has just reached the stage of being creepy. Beware of him because he might also turn into the guy who likes to whoop ass. He has no control over his emotions and sometimes has irrational thoughts. I don’t want to see any of my readers on an episode of Forensic Files. Run!
5. The Loser
The loser is not the same as the guy who is working at Mcdonalds although some chicks might disagree. The guy who is working at McDonalds may have a plan and want more out of life and is using Mcdonalds as his stepping stone. While a loser, wants absolutely nothing out of life but to party and bull shit. He feels that someone should be there to take care of him and he never should have to step up his game or mature. He refuses to be an adult and to grow. He is eternally stuck in a child like state. He will bring you down eventually! Stay away!
The classic case of the committment phobic should have definately hit the list. The guy that expects the perks and benefits but decline or refuse to place 'labels' on a relationship.
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