I wrote an article about a year ago. It was titled 6 Women For Good Men To Avoid. I touched on the different chicks that good men should avoid, in order to prevent later being a bitter man after she breaks your heart. What about those who already have experienced these types of women? How should a good man recuperate from this? What should he avoid in the future when selecting a potential mate? Needless to say, I have prepared a short but concise list for you. Take what you can from it fellas.

The Needy Chick-

So, you lucked up and got yourself a needy woman huh? You thought her inability to handle her own business was cute at first? You thought that her needing your advice, approval and being available to you at all times was hot? Six months later and you hate the sound of her voice. You want to throw the phone across the room when you see her number pop up on your cell. Look what you have gotten yourself into now. My advice to you brotha is to toughen up. There is a reason why she was so complacent and submissive. She has a need to be lead. You might have enjoyed her willingness to drop everything and tend to your every little need at first. But you did not consider the consequences of this. She has nothing else going on in her life but you. No goals, no aspirations, no dreams. You are her number one and only priority.

A woman that has her own life, set of goals, can love you just as much. However, she may not be as mouse-like and she probably won’t be able to tend to your every need within a moments notice. This is the double edged sword that comes along with having a woman that has her own mind, thoughts and priorities outside of a man. Sure she might not be as needy, but she also may be able to survive quite fine without you. For some men, the idea of this type of independence is scary. You might want to toughen up before you step to her. Pick your poison carefully.

The Gold Digger

Look, there is a clear difference between a guy who is a “trick off” and a “giving man”. I prefer a giving man. Find a woman who has her own income and is on the move to make more. Also, don’t be hesitant to treat a woman. Pay for dates, etc.. However, notice the signs of a selfish woman. Does she ever offer to take you out? Has she ever once reached into her purse to pay for anything on a date? Does she ever offer to maybe cook a meal for you in her home? Is she considerate? These are clues as to whether you are dealing with a selfish woman or a giving one. If you allow yourself to pay to play with no reciprocity then you can only blame yourself.

The Whorish Chick

Fellas, you set yourself up for disaster. I can’t even feel sympathy for you. Most guys are so consumed with getting the panties that they never stop to think that if she is sucking, licking, and screwing you after knowing you for an hour then she probably will do the same to the next guy. In most cases, your game is not that tight despite what your ego is telling you. I Hate to break it to you. If you decide to get busy with her then you do so at your own risk. Also, if she is a “whore” in your eyes then what does that make you. The pendulum swings both ways homie. Like the old adage goes: You lay with dogs…. Ehh.. You know the rest.

Drama Queen

For any guy that constantly attracts women that are complete drama queens, my advice to you is to get a life. No seriously. Find a hobby of some sort to invest your time in because obviously you are bored. There has to be something about you that is attracting these types of women. That something is that you enjoy the drama. You get a sick thrill out of wondering if your girl is going to pop out from behind a bush; or if when you wake up your car windows will be bashed out. There has to be something about your personality, that is making these same type of women attract to you. All women are not crazy so stop using that as your excuse for your messy love life. You have to enjoy the excitement that comes with the drama. Look inwards first before you start dating again. As a sane girl might be too much of a bore to you which will only cause you to be the one to cause the drama.

Eternal Baby Moma

Oh, don’t complain about her “having all those kids” now. It was cool when you were first started dating her and thought that she had a fat a**. My advice is to think before you begin to invest into a woman with kids. Why? You are dating her and her kids. Perhaps not in the beginning but eventually you will be a part of the kids life by default. If you know that you are not up to the task then don’t waste her time, yours or her kids.

Crazy Chick

She is a nut. You might not notice during the first date, but once you do, EXIT. I will tell you like I tell my girls, there is no sense in reasoning with a nut case. Don’t even begin to invest in this woman and don’t you allow her to invest in you. It will only make your eventual departure from one another that much harder. You see the signs, RUN! Also, please, please, don’t have sex with this woman. You are not only opening her legs but your are opening Pandora’s box. Her box of hell.