I love receiving oral sex from my man. The licking, the sucking, the slurping, the noises all of it is a complete turn on to me. Most importantly, it is all about me. It gives me a brief moment to be a recluse and disappear into the abyss of pleasure. For a few moments nothing else matters to me. There is nothing else on my mind. I don’t give a damn about going to work. I’m not worrying about my family. I’m not even thinking of this damn site. All that matters to me in that moment is the pleasure that I am receiving. I enjoy tongue caressing so much so that the idea of me dating a man who was against performing it is foreign to me. I’m looking at him like he is a VCR, like I have no use for you honey. (more…)

Recently I was listening to my boyfriend and his friends discuss the reasons why some of them prefer White women over Black women. Many of their reasons were purely based on superficial factors, which bothered me. It is one thing to date someone because you like them as a person and could care less about their skin color which is perfectly fine. It is another thing to purposely seek a particular race for frivolous reasoning. I know that this topic has been discussed over and over but I do not think that it has ever been looked at via a more superficial eye. (more…)

I’m sure we’ve all faced some type of rejection in our lives at one point or another, but what happens when it’s the other way around? When you’re the one having to do the rejecting. This task is almost as annoying to handle, as dealing with the heartache of being let down. Is there any way to politely and properly say “no-thank you” these days? (more…)

This one is for the brothas. Some of you are in tune with your woman and some of you are so lost in your own world that you are unable to recognize anyone’s needs outside of your own. This is a short list of things that women wish men knew and would incorporate into their relationship regularly. There are many more so feel free ladies to add on in the comments. Brothas, take notes.
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I can’t believe that after all these years I had no indication of this. How could I have been so clueless to something that directly affected me. I was/am an emotional eater. One would think that the sudden desire to devour 3 slices of pie back to back with a tall glass of milk when I’m bored would have led me in that direction. However, I was clueless. All, I did know was whenever I am experiencing the emotions of being upset, bored or sad, you can also throw hungry in the mix. (more…)

For years I could not achieve an orgasm. I enjoyed the act of sex but never got to the WOW point like my partner did. I could never reach orgasm via penetration. I only reached an orgasm via oral sex. This frustrated me and eventually, I was on the verge of giving up and assumed that I would be one of those women who would never achieve an orgasm through sex. I contended with being Forty years old and still an orgasm virgin. (more…)